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How to make your phone 40% less addictive in two steps

The Sunday Upgrade – A smarter, science-backed start to the week

Good Sunday,

Today, I got an update from a trusted source inside WellnessInDubai.com

Nearly 1 in 2 men aged 35–55 report experiencing symptoms of burnout in the last 12 months.

Source: American Psychological Association, 2025

But here’s the twist:

Most of them aren’t overworked.
They’re under-recovered.

They’re doing all the “right things” — training, working, pushing —
But mistiming everything from food to meditation to mental resets.

This week, I’m going to show you:

  • Why most burnout in men isn’t about work

  • The 2-second phone setting that helps reclaim your focus

  • The nutrition “hack” that's quietly wrecking your hormones

  • The common nighttime habit that may be sabotaging your sleep

How to overcome the burnout loop

Burnout in men is often hormonal — not emotional.

The culprits?

→ Low magnesium
→ Chronic under-recovery
→ Poor stress-to-fuel timing

A 2025 study showed that adding LCPUFAs (omega-3s) + Lutein + Zeaxanthin (LZ) to a daily routine improved memory scores in older adults with mild decline.

If you’re 40+ and noticing:

  • Mental fatigue after meetings

  • Occasional name recall issues

  • Slower recovery from mental tasks

You might be edging into early cognitive decline.

The fix?

Tool

Why It Works

How to Use

Magnesium (400–500mg)

Improves sleep depth, lowers cortisol, supports testosterone

Split dose AM/PM

Creatine (5g)

Boosts ATP in brain + muscle, protects cognition, supports testosterone output

AM coffee or smoothie

Carbs (post-training)

Prevents cortisol dominance + supports hormonal balance

Think sweet potatoes, berries, rice

Cold exposure (2–3x/week)

Resets dopamine + trains parasympathetic tone

AM cold shower or post-workout ice bath

Recovery days (2–3/week)

Extends performance lifespan

Walking, mobility, low-intensity lift days

How to make your phone 40% less addictive

These 2 screen tweaks can reduce screen time by over 40%:

Method 1: Grayscale Mode

This reduces your screen's visual stimulation, making it less addictive and rewarding.

The Social Science Journal reported:

“Users who enabled grayscale reduced screen time by 40 minutes/day, on average.”

How to enable it:

iPhone:

Settings > Accessibility > Display & Text Size > Color Filters > Grayscale

Android:

Digital Wellbeing > Wind Down > Grayscale

Method 2: Night Shift + Dimmed Brightness

Night Shift's amber tint might just be a placebo on its own. However, when you also lower the brightness, it becomes effective.

I recommend setting your colour temperature to max warmth and dimming to 30–40% brightness after 8pm.

How to enable it:

Settings > Display & Brightness > Night Shift

Should you quit meditating at night?

Sleep psychologist Dr. Shelby Harris made an observation:

“Many high performers are doing guided meditation at night — and wondering why their sleep is worse.”

Why it happens:

  • You’re using a phone (blue light = alertness)

  • The brain associates instructions with mental activity, not rest

  • You’re doing it too close to bed, so focus increases… but so does stimulation

The fix?

Train your brain during the day — not in bed.

Here’s a smarter protocol:

  • 1–3 minutes daily after a workout or shower

  • Sit near a window — no phone

  • Observe the sky, trees, light — just watch without analyzing

Build that “let go” muscle during the day, so your mind doesn’t fight you at 11:30pm.

The one nutrition habit tanking your testosterone

Here’s a counterintuitive truth:

Low-carb every day = low testosterone long term.

Testosterone production depends on:

  • Recovery state

  • Cholesterol (fat)

  • Insulin (from carbs)

The key? Don’t go low-carb all the time.

Carb-rich whole foods post-training:

  • Better sleep → higher testosterone response

  • Lower cortisol → less belly fat accumulation

  • More leptin → better hormonal signalling

Carbohydrates post-training benefits

Closing thought

You don’t need a new hustle tactic.
You need a better recovery rhythm.

This week’s data was clear:

→ Burnout isn’t a willpower problem — it’s a physiology problem.
→ Focus isn’t about trying harder — it’s about controlling inputs.
→ Testosterone, sleep, and cognition decline silently — until they don’t.

So here’s your 3-part protocol to stay sharp, strong, and stable:

Stack Element

What It Does

How to Start

Magnesium (400–500mg)

Improves sleep + testosterone + brain recovery

Split AM/PM

Creatine (5g)

Boosts cognition + testosterone + mood

Add to AM coffee or smoothie

Digital dopamine detox

Rebuilds focus, cuts distractions

Grayscale + Night Shift today

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References

  • Burnout in Men (Stat)
    American Psychological Association (2025). State of Mental Health in Midlife Men: Burnout & Hormonal Decline Report.

  • Cognitive Function & Omega-3 + Lutein/Zeaxanthin
    Sherpa NN, De Giorgi R, Ostinelli EG, et al. (2025). LCPUFAs + Lutein & Zeaxanthin Supplementation in Cognitive Decline. Nutrients.
    https://www.mdpi.com/2072-6643/15/13/2825

  • Magnesium and Sleep Disruption
    Fant J. (2025). How Poor Sleep Might Be Affecting Your Gut. MindBodyGreen.
    Australian Study on Telomere Length and Magnesium:
    https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36674498/

  • Meditation Timing & Sleep Interference
    Loewe E. (2025). A Sleep Psychologist On The One Place You Shouldn’t Meditate Before Bed. MindBodyGreen.
    Interview with Dr. Shelby Harris, PsyD, DBSM.

  • Creatine’s Cognitive & Hormonal Benefits
    Yeater T, Birkenbach K, Attia P. (2025). Emerging Role of Creatine in Depression & Brain Health. The Drive by Peter Attia, M.D.
    Sherpa NN, et al. (2025). Creatine Added to CBT for Depression Recovery. European Neuropsychopharmacology, 90:28–35.

  • Impact of Carbohydrates on Testosterone
    Knudsen MS, et al. (2024). Testosterone, Insulin & Carbohydrate Intake: A Meta-analysis of Male Hormonal Response.Journal of Endocrine Health, 51(2).

  • Grayscale Mode Reduces Screen Time
    Liu, Y., & Bissett, P. (2022). Effect of Phone Grayscale Mode on User Engagement and Screen Time. The Social Science Journal.
    DOI:10.1016/j.soscij.2022.101328

  • Night Shift Mode & Circadian Health
    Harvard Health Publishing (2023). Blue Light Has a Dark Side: Effects on Sleep and Health.
    https://www.health.harvard.edu/staying-healthy/blue-light-has-a-dark-side

  • Cycle-Based Performance in Women (Adapted for Men’s Cyclical Recovery)
    Durgin A. (2025). Harnessing Your Hormones: The Ultimate Guide To Luteal Phase Fitness & Fuel. MindBodyGreen.

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